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The most important factor in applying all these tactics is the sublety to maintain your reputation. Don't let the guy you like think of you as a manipulator or else all things will fall apart. With these tactics, you will make the guy believe he's the one pursuing, but without losing any control of the dynamics.
The art of planting ideas in a man's mind aka inception:
This tactic is all about planting an idea in a man's mind wherein you become the only source of alleviation. The idea will take root a few days later making it appear as though it came straight from him.
Remember that by bypassing a person's resistance, you allow the idea to take root in their minds. They only listen to what arises from themselves. For men, their life is too forward and direct, there's barely any ambiguity and mystery. Becoming his puzzle and mystery makes him want to crack the code for you; it makes the man think of you more.
Remember that this suggestion is all about stirring up what's already inside a man's mind. It's similar to a drug addict who gets triggered at the subtle insinuation of his favorite high.
The key to making this work is to get them when they're relaxed or distracted. This allows your suggestions to take form the man's mind at a deeper level, making his thoughts and emotions control him after the interaction.
This is done through a simple process:
1. Strong statement and then retracting it: "I'll be honest, most of the guys I go for really are... ehh" and then change the topic and retract it.
2. Saying a statement about a guy you find attractive and then changing the topic
3. Having a picture of a celebrity that looks different from him.
4. Insinuation can also mean communicating something and making him feel like he read the wrong signals: inviting him to watch Netflix and then rebuking him for thinking it was more than just friends.
5. When you guys are hanging out and talking about how no one is in your apartment and how there's no one there. Talking about how nice your place looks and how awesome the furniture is.
6. If you want to talk about sex without appearing a whore, just go about it with slow steps. Act as though you shouldn't be saying it. Change your tone and then return to your normal nice girl vibe. Don't return to the topic and let him think about it.
7. Giving him a quick glance into your sensuality by immediately going from friendly to sexy.
8. When texting, allow him to say something that could be deemed as offensive and not respond to it. This will insinuate that you were disappointed. This will make the guy think of you more and try to correct what he destroyed.
9. Subtle gestures and looks: when the guy is talking, act as though you are neither happy nor disappointed with what he said. Subtly looking away, giving him a "wtf" look, or even staying more quite, will make him change his course. Trust me. It does work. Men are always trying to read your facial expressions and subtle communication.
All of these tactics are meant to get the guy to think about you more. They aren't meant to make him love you, there are other tactics for that.
The pitfall
Use this to make him think of you, but don't make it your sole and only tactic. If you use it too much later in the relationship, it'll stir up the wrong doubt.
Use this to plant the seed and set the soil so that he's ready to receive your suggestions. Be sure to not go overboard. Be direct once you know he's yearning for you. This will make him think of you even more. Once he believes he has you then you can subtly take a step back - but don't hurt him. Don't inflict pain. Just take a step back from time to time.
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